The Victor Marx Story

On Tuesday, May 15 at 6:30pm, Highpoint Church, in cooperation with Germantown Baptist Church, is hosting the premiere of The Victor Marx Story. I have had the privilege of meeting Victor and watching his ministry (http://www.victormarx.com/) touch many lives. I am excited about this opportunity for the Memphis area. I strongly encourage you to make time to be at this event. Victor will be there, so you don't want to miss this opportunity to watch and experience Victor's ministry in person.

Details: visit http://www.highpointmemphis.com/victormarx

The Victor Marx Story:

  • Tuesday, May 15th 2012 at 6:30pm
  • At Highpoint Church 6000 Briarcrest Ave, Memphis.
  • This movie is PG-13 and there will be NO children's ministry or childcare at this event.
  • There is NO cost, but a love offering will be taken to benefit Trey Erwin of Collierville who is battling terminal cancer. 

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My Sabbatical

"My Sabbatical" 2012/5/16 - KL pending
Over ten years ago, I answered what I sensed to be the call of God on my life to help start Highpoint Church. This calling was birthed out of a passion to see God do something great in the city of Memphis and beyond. This ten-year journey has been one of the greatest challenges, privileges and blessings of my life. This journey has certainly showed me my weaknesses and deficiencies as well as God's grace to use someone like me for His work. I am grateful to serve alongside Chris Conlee for these ten years, and as we reminisce, we love to reflect on all God has done. We also love to joke that somehow we have squeezed 20 years of ministry into ten!

In honor of ten years of service, Highpoint is giving me the gift of a Sabbatical. It is hard to truly describe the blessing of this gift in advance, but after watching Chris take his "year 10 Sabbatical" last summer, I am eager to experience this blessing. During the months of June and July, I will be on Sabbatical. I'm writing this post to help you understand why I will be limiting my interactions on social media, blogging, email and even absent at Highpoint on Sundays.  Here are a few things you need to know about my sabbatical and sabbaticals in general.

1. A sabbatical is a season of time to rest, recuperate, reflect and recharge. The primary purpose for this time is to take a reprieve from my normal workload. The idea is to refresh myself as a husband, father, teacher, writer, and leader through personal time with the Lord, with family, special experiences and projects. 

2. A sabbatical is NOT about being lazy. Though I'll be doing a good bit of resting and relaxing, I will be also be taking time to focus on some goals specific to my sabbatical. 

My goals include:
- Extended Priority Time each day to read God's word and pray.
- Extended time with family to play, travel and help each of my kids achieve some goals for their lives.
- Weekly date nights with Amanda to give our marriage some additional attention.
- To complete the manuscript and proposal for the marriage book I've been promising!
- To tackle a handful of home improvement projects that have been waiting on me.
- Visit a handful of other churches to encourage and appreciate what God is doing in other places.
- Consistently eat right and exercise.
- Personal growth through DVD training sessions and my summer reading list.

I tend to be overly-optimistic when it comes to goal setting. Given the available time and detailed planning I've done, prayerfully I will accomplish everything above and more. 

3. A sabbatical is a privilege for which I am grateful. I know that there are tons of people out there that work just as hard as me and would equally deserve the blessing of a sabbatical. Highpoint Church is a special place and the staff here are the hardest working, highest quality people I've ever worked with. Since we started, we have dreamed of creating a staff culture that honors God's calling on people's lives and their families who faithfully support. A sabbatical is a privilege. I cannot express how grateful I am, along with my wife and children, for this once in a decade gift.

4. A sabbatical is an experiment in faith. A major part of being away for two months is the faith required to disconnect from normal life and rest knowing God is truly the one in charge. We pastors can easily develop a Messiah complex and think God needs us. A sabbatical is an intentional way to remind me that God doesn't need me; He wants me, but doesn't need me. I know that Highpoint will continue along wonderfully without me around for two months. It better or something is very wrong. 

5. A sabbatical is about returning. The entire goal of a sabbatical is to return ready for another decade of ministry. I anticipate God showing me more of His plan for my life, giving me more vision for the future and equipping me to return gassed up and ready to run the next leg of ministry with passion. 

I humbly ask for your prayers as I'm away. The remaining days in May will be fast and furious to get things ready to be away. Starting in June, I will be very limited on social media, email, blogging and you won't see me at Highpoint over the summer, but I covet your prayers. I will be trying to do a weekly sabbatical update on my blog, and I'll probably Instagram some of the fun we have. This is a once in a decade opportunity so please pray that God use it as such. My family and I love you all.

 

 

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Act My Age

"Act my age!" 2012/5/10 - published Kids can drive ya nuts! It seems like every kid has a sixth sense on how to push the limits of his or her parents. Last week we were on vacation in Disney World, which was tons of fun, but when you combine a full day of sensory overload, the heat of central Florida, kids hopped up on ice cream and cotton candy and limited sleep, you have a recipe for disaster!  After about 3 days of this situation, I caught myself holding my kids to completely unreasonable standards....and I wasn't alone. It was happening all over Disney World! Parents like me, who love their kids, were getting weary and imposing adult standards on their kids. We've all scolded our kids with the phrase "act your age!" In our situation, we were essentially telling our kids, "act MY age!" 

If we aren't careful, we can easily slip into the frustration of expecting our kids to act like adults. We need to really be careful here. Kids are kids. And whether you like it or not, they will act like kids! We demoralize our children when we impose standards they simply aren't able to meet. Here are a few tips to keep you from the "act MY age" trap. 

1. Remind yourself how old your kids are. This is not a mental exercise - say it out loud right now. When we force ourselves to recognize the actual age of our kids, we are one step closer to appropriate expectations for them. For instance, a three year doesn't typically do well without a decent sleep schedule. Sure, it's fun to let them stay up late and act like mini-adults, but this throws them off. Their little bodies need rest. If you do let them stay up late, adjust your expectations for the following day.

2. Think process, not perfection. Your kids are growing up. I know it feels slow, but it's moving much faster then you realize. Adjust your expectations for process. Our kids need intentional training for everything. We cannot expect them to pick up on important values and actions without intentional training. Take the time to help them understand and learn the expectations. Again, be patient. It is unlikely they will master the concept immediately. Encourage and expect consistent progress.

3. Laugh at the spilled milk. Our kids can mess things up, cause a scene, ruin their clothes, say the wrong thing at the wrong time and a hundred other offenses. Sometimes we need to sit back and laugh, knowing it's all part of the process of growing up. Every mistake is either an opportunity to train or an opportunity for you to express your disappointment. Sometimes the "spilled milk" gets the best of you; when it does, apologize to them and move forward.

4. Focus on age appropriate expectations. Its a parent's job to ensure a child knows the appropriate expectation for their age. This is where we must be intentional. Without giving the age and stage of life of our children, we can easily expect too much or not enough, which both produce equally negative results. When parents can be patient, deal with today's learning and growth, then we will see our kids master things far quicker than heaping great demands on them that are frankly too much for them to handle.

So, next time you reach that point of frustration that every parent experiences, just remember these 4 tips to stay out of the "act your/my age" trap!

Happy parenting!

For more great parenting insights from Andy please click here to watch the Tightrope series. 

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